I’ve gone on a couple dates with a gal I met on Okcupid. We have a lot in common. And she’s attractive and intelligent. But there is one thing that irks me about her. She doesn’t say thank you. I buy dinner. I open the car door for her. Flowers. But I never get a thank you.
I didn’t realize it at first. But then I did and it started to bother me. I don’t feel like she has a sense of entitlement. She’s very nice and she does give me compliments. But there’s something about not saying thank you that bothers me. When we were out to dinner last, I knocked her silverware on the floor so the server would have to bring her clean utensils to see if she thanked the server. The server did not receive a thank you. He got a nod and a smile.
She has a lot of qualities that I look for in a woman. She doesn’t really have any bad qualities that I have noticed. But I might stop seeing her because of this. I’ve thought about saying something to her about it. But the subject seems awkward to me because it seems like common sense/manners that if someone does something for you, you say thank you.
I’m a picky guy. But is stopping seeing someone because they don’t say thank you being too picky?